Tuesday, 10 September 2013

Good news

Dr F (or shall I call him Dr nose?) DID say some excellent things last night though, and I'm writing them down because I want to remember them when it might be a bit bleak.

1. it's good that I found the cancer and acted on it.

2. it's good that I have large breasts.

3. It's very unlikely that I will have to go through chemo in my road to recovery (nothing is sure but I like 'very unlikely' very much).

4. it's good that the cancer was caught so early.

He was pretty nice and straightforward.

I did ask him the same question as Patrice 'if it was your wife, what would you do?)  He said he'd do the second choice but that he is not his wife so he can't decide for her.

dh's view is that I should do the first option because he knows me well and he knows that psychologically it would be 7 kinds of hell for me to go through the second and that I would be a bitch to him and the kids for the next year.

What he doesn't know is that mabye if doubts install, I'd be a bitch anyway.

Or maybe I won't be a bitch at all ('you kiddin me?' dh)

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